Let’s get one thing straight: There is feminine energy and masculine energy in all of us.
In fact, reaching a balance between them is key to functioning at full power in all areas of your life.
The secret is to know when to use your feminine energy and when to use your masculine energy.
In a relationship with a man, being in your feminine energy is essential because that’s how you interact with his masculine energy in the most natural way.
What is feminine energy exactly?
Feminine energy refers to a person’s ability to…
… be spontaneous and go with the flow
… follow the guidance that comes from the heart
… take care of themselves and love themselves
… prioritize feelings and make judgments based on them
… be empathetic and nurturing with others
What’s more, as a woman, you can increase your feminine energy by enhancing your femininity as well. This means to also look and act feminine.
How do you tap into your feminine energy in a relationship?
Since feminine energy and masculine energy work best when they are in balance, that’s exactly what you have to do.
You have to bring harmony to your relationship by responding to his masculine energy in the right way.
What is the right way? Being in your feminine energy with him and allowing him to show off his masculinity.
How? As follows, I’ll share with you 11 ways that will teach you how to be in your feminine energy with a man.
11 Ways To Be In Your Feminine Energy With a Man
1. Develop a strong sense of self-worth
You can express your feminine energy through many things, including your sense of self-worth.
In other words, you have to love yourself first to be able to receive someone else’s love. Deep down, you should know that you are worthy of love.
Having self-worth also means that when you think about yourself, your thoughts are generally positive.
You like yourself and, on top of that, you think you should be valued and treated with respect. If you can relate, then you can move on to the next point.
However, if you can’t, here are a few things you can do to develop a strong sense of self-worth:
- Identify your strengths and weaknesses and learn to accept them.
- Be confident that your presence in other people’s lives is positive.
- Know that you do your work well and you’re making a difference.
- Set clear boundaries about how you want to be treated and spoken to.
Do this and you’ll attract a man like a magnet. Opposites attract, after all!
2. Embrace your role as a nurturer
For as long as I can remember, women are considered nurturers. They have this innate drive to care for others, to be tender and delicate.
Not all women are caretakers, though. Not all of them have the desire or the instinct to take care of others.
Do you know why? They are fuelled by masculine energy.
But if you want to achieve the opposite, then you have to let men focus on that. They are the action-driven ones; the ones who think logically; the ones who are fond of challenges.
You have to simply step back and let them do their thing. Otherwise, instead of balancing your relationship, you would cause the opposite and that’s definitely not what you want.
Ways to nurture him are to practice empathy with him, use positive touch (a hug, a pat, a kiss), praise and encourage him verbally, and ultimately, spoil him.
3. Look at things from the right perspective
To radiate feminine energy and femininity at the same time, there’s something else you need to understand.
Men or masculine energy don’t rule the world. There is room for everyone to freely express themselves as they are, without having to fight for power.
Simply put, if you think women are inferior in any way to men, you won’t be able to use the full potential you have as a woman and as a person.
Especially in a relationship with a man, this aspect matters a lot. For your relationship to thrive, you have to work like a team and be on the same side.
He is not better than you just because he is a man or the other way around. You both have your own strengths and weaknesses.
4. Attract him with your feminine energy
Listen, it’s time to stop being ashamed about any of the things that make you a woman. It’s time to stop hiding your sensitive side or anything else that you think makes you appear “weak.”
This is how you use your feminine energy. When you let it empower you, it gives you the needed courage to introduce him to your world without being afraid.
By doing so, you’re not only showing him the real you, but you also improve communication between the two of you.
You show him that you are strong because you let him in, not because you don’t. Taking a risk and revealing your emotions don’t actually push men away.
Being needy, desperate, and clingy do though!
5. Use your body to exude femininity
In a relationship, physical attraction is just as important as other types of attraction, such as intellectual, and so on.
That’s why it’s essential to use your body to express your feminine energy and femininity. How?
Here are some examples:
- Stand with your back straight and your head high to exude confidence.
- Keep your arms by your side and don’t use ample movements.
- Play with your hair in a delicate and flirty manner.
- Cross your legs in a sensual manner exposing your thigh or ankles.
- Smile at him and make brief physical contact with him.
All these gestures attract any man because they are inviting, and friendly, and they make men feel less fearful of rejection.
6. Hold onto the energy you already have
If you already feel overwhelmed, let me stop you right here.
Even before you take any steps to be in your feminine energy with a man, you must acknowledge the fact that feminine energy already exists in you.
It might not be as powerful as you want it to be. However, this doesn’t mean that you have to start from scratch.
What you must do is embrace it. If you free yourself from misconceptions and fully embrace your feminine energy, you are one step closer to achieving your goal.
So, what are you waiting for? Think of all the ways you’re already emanating this type of energy and start building on them.
7. Show him your playful and joyful side
Independent, rational, and able to build ongoing effort, men need someone in their life to soften it for them.
Any man needs a woman or someone with dominant feminine energy in his life. He needs a woman who is so confident that she’s not afraid to act silly sometimes just to put a smile on her partner’s face.
A fun-loving attitude in general is highly appreciated by men, as well as being flirty and a little naughty.
So, the next time you’re in a relationship with a man, remember to entertain him! He will love that and he will feel even more drawn to you because he has fun.
Express yourself freely with him and use your sensuality to attract him even more!
8. Reconsider what femininity means to you
Before we move on, let me ask you this: What does it mean for you to be feminine?
Femininity and feminine energy can take many forms. That’s why it’s important to define it for yourself, not to copy someone else’s idea of being feminine.
This applies to both your physical appearance and your behavior. So, what do you think?
For me, being feminine means…
… being able to highlight my best physical features in an attractive and tasteful way.
… behaving with dignity, and delicacy, and acting a bit helpless sometimes.
… acting with confidence while acknowledging my weaknesses, not ignoring them.
… being calm and creating a safe space where everyone can express themselves.
… acting based on my innate drive to take care of people in need and be kind.
What does it mean for you? As soon as you find out, act on your definition and enhance the aspects that need improvement.
9. Rely on yourself more to build confidence
Assuming you believe that men and women are equal, one other way to be in your feminine energy with a man is to rely on yourself.
If you rely on yourself, you also build more confidence and gain a stronger sense of self-worth.
This will make the man you’re in a relationship with more drawn to you. Why? Because you’re basically showing him that you’re a strong and resourceful woman.
You are able to make things happen for yourself and you don’t need him or others. And this will make him realize that you’re in a relationship with him because you want him, not because you need him.
10. Keep your heart open to receiving love
Want your feminine energy to be off the charts? Then what you need to do is open your heart to him and don’t let the negative thoughts that go through your head affect you.
I know that blindly keeping your heart open to a man might be difficult for you. Especially if men have deceived you in the past, trusting them may seem impossible.
However, keep in mind that your feminine energy defines you. Focus on effective communication with the men in your life instead of making assumptions.
Also, stop thinking about the worst-case scenarios. Positive thinking – sometimes out of the realm of rationality – is for your own good.
11. Make him chase you from time to time
Men have been chasing women from the beginning of time and this dynamic worked well so far, so why change it?
Be in your feminine energy with him making him chase you from time to time. Don’t give in immediately and give him all of your affection.
You can play hard to get and hard to please – but just a little. This will only motivate him to go out of his way for you. By doing so, you’ll stimulate his masculine energy for sure.
And that’s a good thing, right? His levels will match yours and your relationship will be balanced.
Being in your feminine energy with a man is a process. It won’t happen overnight, and it requires a lot of work on yourself.
However, this shouldn’t discourage you. You can have a lot of fun enhancing your femininity and using your feminine energy.
It all depends on your attitude, so keep a positive one and take the needed steps to become the woman you want to be.